Boy was I grumpy last night and this book is to blame….. I will explain but let me give you the set up first.
You know what the unwritten rule between girls is right? You do not, I mean do not, steal your best friend’s boyfriend (yes connections to recent read – 6 Rules of Maybe). You don’t crush on him, and you most certainly do not KISS him when he is still with your best friend, and maybe not even after. Now we can debate this rule – and I suppose it has been, but it is the unwritten rule, at least of this title.
Sarah has a crush on Ryan, she has since the 8th grade, but no one really knows that, not even her best friend, Brianna. Which might be why when Ryan turns up totally hot at the end of the summer Brianna turns her full wattage on him and now they are dating. And since a) Sarah never said anything its not like Brianna broke that unwritten rule and b) since Sarah assumes no boy would like her over Brianna she just accepts this fact. But it isn’t that easy, because there is something there – between Sarah and Ryan, and Ryan and Brianna may not be working out.
So grumpitude….. here is the thing about the story. Brianna is both casually mean and totally fragile. She has pretty much destroyed Sarah’s self esteem over the years, although Sarah’s personality allowed that to happen. And it wasn’t on purpose. The situation with Brianna’s parents (bitter divorce, working all the time, and casually and not so casually mean themselves) has left her self esteem pretty f’ed up too. Sarah has the loving family that Brianna has slowly become a part of, but Brianna has all the attention. The constant “brush your hair” or “we can find you a freshman to date” are what I mean by ‘casually mean’. So you hate Brianna just a bit, but you also feel sorry for her. And while the inevitablity of the ending is obvious to the reader, it is going to hit Brianna like a freight train, and because ultimately she is fragile you feel a little sorry for her.
I had this friend. She could make you feel like the coolest, most important person in the world one minute, and like nothing the next. She had unwritten rules she wasn’t afraid to break, but Lord, you didn’t want to be the one to break them. And the thing is for a vast lot of people I don’t have an identity separate from that relationship, and frankly we haven’t talked in 20 years but I am still guilty/angry/sad/insecure about all of that. So reading this book just dredged a whole lot of crap up – hence, grumpitude.
I am not sure what this book is – romance? well sort of. friendship? yes that too. Finding yourself? yep. Families in all their glory and horror? Oh yeah. I’ve been reading mean girls lately (here for example) so it was interesting to read a mean girl who wasn’t intentional, at least at first.
I really like Elizabeth Scott, and in some way this reminded me of The Boyfriend List in similar theme. The casual meanness, the girl relationship, etc. but boy was I grumpy.
Others thoughts:
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